I’ve been reading Faithless by Tony Philpott. It’s about his journey from believer to atheist. He has a nice passage about how hard it was for him to evolve because belief in God was so ingrained growing up Catholic in Dublin. There was just no room for another view to gain traction in his environment. All media and every person around him supported and promoted the belief in God.
This article in a similar way shows how necessary it is to overcome low expectations. Where the author grew up, the wrong side of the tracks in Manchester, England, low expectations dominated. She writes that there’s lots of need in modern society to fight back against beliefs that get in the way of achievement.
I’ve also been impressed by U.S. Supreme Court Justice, Clarence Thomas, and Dr. Ben Carson, two black Americans who survived a start in poverty to reach the pinnacle of their professions. More evidence it can be done.
In my coaching work I often reference that after Roger Bannister finally broke the 4 minute mile barrier many others followed suit within a short time. Once the fact that it could be done took hold the new belief stimulated many others.
What connects the people above is that they’ve achieved heady goals while overcoming beliefs that hold most people back. Beliefs that were their own and others’.
That formula I use with my coaching clients. What goals do you have? What beliefs, yours and others’, are in your way? How can you overcome those beliefs? You can use the formula for yourself. Interestingly, developing goals is quite often the stumbling block.